{"id":756,"date":"2010-07-12T14:55:43","date_gmt":"2010-07-12T18:55:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/noelfigart.com\/blog\/?p=756"},"modified":"2010-07-12T14:55:43","modified_gmt":"2010-07-12T18:55:43","slug":"why-yes-i-do-find-it-weird","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/2010\/07\/12\/why-yes-i-do-find-it-weird\/","title":{"rendered":"Why yes, I DO find it weird"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, you women out there.\u00a0 I got one for you:<\/p>\n<p>You know if a guy grabs the butt of a woman he finds attractive and when she objects he\u2019ll make the, \u201cIt\u2019s the testosterone, I couldn\u2019t help it\u201d excuse?<\/p>\n<p>Know how we don\u2019t have any real sympathy for that?<\/p>\n<p>Then why should we expect sympathy for flying off the handle at our hormone cycles?\u00a0 Why should the menstrual cycle give us a free pass?\u00a0 Don\u2019t get me wrong, my moods are very much hormonally-driven.\u00a0 I just don\u2019t think that me being mean in the face of that is excusable.\u00a0 I feel like I\u2019m a grown up and responsible for my behavior.\u00a0 If I pull the \u201cI\u2019m at the mercy of my hormones\u201d card, and then expect a man <em>not<\/em> to, then what I\u2019m really saying is that as a woman I\u2019m not as much of a grownup.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not into that.\u00a0 I think expecting <em>all<\/em> the grownups to <em>be<\/em> grownups whether they\u2019ve an innie or an outie is what makes the most sense.<\/p>\n<p>And since we\u2019re all human as well, yes, apologizing when one screws up<a href=\"#_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> is a good idea, too.\u00a0 \u201cI\u2019m sorry, I was wrong to do that, and I\u2019m going to try to do better\u201d should be in all our repertoires.<\/p>\n<hr size=\"1\" \/><a href=\"#_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> Not if.\u00a0 When.\u00a0 We all do screw up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, you women out there.\u00a0 I got one for you: You know if a guy grabs the butt of a woman he finds attractive and when she objects he\u2019ll make the, \u201cIt\u2019s the testosterone, I couldn\u2019t help it\u201d excuse? Know how we don\u2019t have any real sympathy for that? Then why should we expect sympathy &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/2010\/07\/12\/why-yes-i-do-find-it-weird\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why yes, I DO find it weird&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-756","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-rant"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=756"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=756"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=756"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=756"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}