{"id":2943,"date":"2020-04-09T08:26:02","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T12:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/?p=2943"},"modified":"2020-04-09T11:22:11","modified_gmt":"2020-04-09T15:22:11","slug":"stay-in-the-present","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/2020\/04\/09\/stay-in-the-present\/","title":{"rendered":"Stay In the Present"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I\u2019d like to pass something on to y\u2019all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re in mental health, you already know this one. This is for people who haven\u2019t been to therapy (or don\u2019t practice certain forms of meditation or philosophy).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Few ACTUAL MOMENTS suck.&nbsp; It\u2019s what you\u2019re <strong>thinking<\/strong> about that sucks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seriously.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll use myself as an example.&nbsp; I\u2019m <strong>anxious<\/strong> about supply chains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am I <em>currently<\/em> experiencing any real deprivation?&nbsp; Well, no.&nbsp; I just had breakfast and a nice cup of coffee.&nbsp; My fridge has many days of meals in it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Right now, in this moment, the thing that sucks is the worrying, not <em>what I am actually experiencing.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What I am actually experiencing is a full stomach, a tasty cup of coffee, a comfortable chair, and time writing.&nbsp; I <em>like<\/em> all of those things and find them pleasant to experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not trying to say that it is <em>easy <\/em>to pull yourself back to the moment.\u00a0 It isn\u2019t.\u00a0 It\u2019s <strong>tough<\/strong>.\u00a0 I\u2019m not saying that if you\u2019re in distress and worrying, it\u2019s All Your Fault for Being Lazy.\u00a0 I. Am. Not.\u00a0 I have been worrying a <strong>lot <\/strong>and then pulling myself back to the present every time I think about things I\u2019m scared of unless there\u2019s an action I genuinely need to take.\u00a0 It\u2019s a process and a practice, and I think it\u2019s worth doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Could things go all to hell?&nbsp; Yes.&nbsp; Absolutely.&nbsp; I won\u2019t face it any better from being tied up in knots about it. In fact, it would be kind of a shame to waste the days of safety and comfort I am actually experiencing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want a tool that\u2019s a good practice for this sort of focus, you could check out my free <a href=\"https:\/\/figart-consulting-software-instruction.teachable.com\/p\/make-your-own-minimalist-bullet-journal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Minimalist Bullet Journal Course<\/a>.&nbsp; It\u2019s practical and hands-on, requiring no skills or equipment but some paper and the ability to read and write.&nbsp; For all that I\u2019m high tech, this low tech solution focuses your mind wonderfully on the present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/figart-consulting-software-instruction.teachable.com\/p\/make-your-own-minimalist-bullet-journal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1826\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/BuJo-Cover-scaled.jpg?fit=525%2C374\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2944\" srcset=\"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/BuJo-Cover-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/BuJo-Cover-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/BuJo-Cover-1024x730.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/BuJo-Cover-768x548.jpg 768w, https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/BuJo-Cover-1536x1096.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/BuJo-Cover-2048x1461.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Few ACTUAL MOMENTS suck.  It\u2019s what you\u2019re thinking about that sucks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2809,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[41],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2943","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bullet-journal"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/0414191458-e1586435260936.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2943","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2943"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2943\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2954,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2943\/revisions\/2954"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}