{"id":2715,"date":"2019-03-16T12:30:57","date_gmt":"2019-03-16T16:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/noelfigart.com\/blog\/?p=2715"},"modified":"2019-03-16T12:31:05","modified_gmt":"2019-03-16T16:31:05","slug":"misunderstanding-the-goal-of-tidiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/2019\/03\/16\/misunderstanding-the-goal-of-tidiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Misunderstanding the Goal of Tidiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;What can you do to give your house a show-room shine?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This question brought me up short.<\/p>\n<p>Have I struggled for many years to develop the habits that will allow me to have a neat, clean home?<\/p>\n<p>Yes.<\/p>\n<p>My goal was never, not once, to have it be a home that you&#8217;d see in a magazine.  I wanted decoration and color schemes that would make me happy.  I wanted to be able to store my stuff neatly and logically.  I wanted to let go of possessions that I no longer needed.<\/p>\n<p>But the idea that I wanted my house to look\u2026 like a stage set or a picture in a magazine never once crossed my mind.  Magazine articles are generic.  They&#8217;re a least common denominator.  That&#8217;s like having your home decorating ideal be a hotel room or something \u2013 pleasant enough, and will be close enough to most people&#8217;s tastes not to offend the eye.<\/p>\n<p>What an awful way to live!<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/031619_1626_Misundersta1.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<p>See?  That&#8217;s my my view from my writin&#8217; chair.  Neat enough, sure.  But is it staged as it would be as if I were selling the house?  Made generic and magazine perfect? No.  There are dragons and skulls and pictures and toys around that are unique to me and make me happy.<\/p>\n<p>That is such an individual thing.  I have dragons and yarn and books.  My husband has action figures and movies and artwork he has drawn. My mother has teapots and depression glass and crystal figurines.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, we want to make sure that we don&#8217;t use the sofa as a wardrobe. (Though I can remember having someone come over and there was underwear on the sofa. It can happen\u2026) We want our bathrooms clean and our dishes washed.<\/p>\n<p>But showroom shine?  I don&#8217;t live in a showroom.  I have a <strong>home<\/strong>.  I like my knitting by my writin&#8217; chair so I can pick that up and work on my projects.<\/p>\n<p>The <strong>goal<\/strong> is to be able to get <strong>to<\/strong> my yarn and have a place where my knitting lives so I can grab it easily.  The <strong>goal<\/strong> is to have clean clothes put away and dirty clothes in the hamper.  The <strong>goal<\/strong> isn&#8217;t and should never be to have my home look static like a museum exhibit.  Homes are a dynamic process, so they cannot and should not always look &#8220;perfect.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Whatever that means.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;What can you do to give your house a show-room shine?&#8221; This question brought me up short. Have I struggled for many years to develop the habits that will allow me to have a neat, clean home? Yes. My goal was never, not once, to have it be a home that you&#8217;d see in a &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/2019\/03\/16\/misunderstanding-the-goal-of-tidiness\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Misunderstanding the Goal of Tidiness&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2714,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-household"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/031619_1626_Misundersta1.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2715"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2718,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2715\/revisions\/2718"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2714"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/noelfigart.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}